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I know that this is probably the worst possible place to be posting this it i'm going to sound really judgmental or impatient or whatever but im not sure i made the right choice with ZTA. uhg im mad at myself for even feeling this way considering theres still girls i havent met yet but from the conversations I've had in person/ the GR posts that are obviously made by zetas trying to convince ppl that everyone in zeta is sooo hot or "top tier"/the things ive read in our chapter groupme just give me a weird vibe. im not trying to bring down a great group of girls at all i was just so excited to find my home and i didnt really think about the challenge of being compatible to a group of 190+ strangers :/ i dont want to mention specifics that would reflect zta in a negative light but I was just hoping someone else in zta could share her opinions or anyone who has any advice could reply? help

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I think you should try going out with some people and get to know them. It does not have to be a party but maybe a study session or coffee. If you still don't like it then drop because you are taking another persons spot and that person might like it. Give it a couple more weeks and make an effort. You should not pay attention to the ZTA posts on here cuz they can be made by anyone.

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They are very average

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Colonizing a new chapter is very difficult. From what I've heard from my friends in ZTA/Gphi the beginning can be really hard as far as getting established. Plus you joined a sisterhood of 190+ women who don't know each other, which isn't a bad thing, you guys just need to get to know each other. This is why a lot of girls join established chapters, it's easier to assimilate into. Combine all that with the fact that ZTA has no relationships with other Greek organizations or a chapter house, of course it's going to feel a bit awkward. I would give it more time, but if you're not feeling it, rush again next year.

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ZTA is full of amazing and beautiful women. I'm positive that if ever needed someone to talk to then someone will be right there to do so. I am in ZTA and it is going to be hard to meet 190+ girls but everyone is so welcoming and they are so many different personalities among the sorority that I'm sure you would fit in somewhere.

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You've been a new member less than a week and you are thinking of quitting? Maybe you should. If you are not mature enough to realize that relationships ( any relationships) take work and time, then maybe you should just get on down the road.

I would, however, recommend waiting. Give yourself some more time. Talk to one of their TLCs. See what happens. If you are still not feeling it as initiation approaches, then quit. As long as you are not initiated you could rush next year.

By: Good grief!

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