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No, you have a wait a year after you accepted your bid. Is it something where you just don't like the house? Maybe give its little more time!

I would just give it some more time. When initiation comes, then make your decision.

I'm just going to put it out there. This is like being recruited to play sports. The hard works starts after you make the team. It's not unusual to think to your self, "what did I get myself into?" What to do? Be an initiator-hang out with your pledge class, grab coffee with a couple of girls in your pledge class, go to the social stuff, MAKE AN EFFORT. You will not instantly become BFFs with everyone, but that's ok. Understand that you are not a pretty pretty princess, don't expect them to cater to you, and understand that it takes time and commitment-you will get out of it what you put into it. But it is so, so, so worth it. Hang in there!

Definitely keep trying to make connections but if time doesn't help do NOT initiate because then you will never be able to be in any other chapter ever. Yes waiting a year to re-rush will suck but if the oranization isn't you then definitely don't commit.