rushing a fraternity

Be yourself. If you don't like a house or the house doesn't seem to like you, check out one of the other ones. There's so many you'll find a place for sure. If guys invite you out with them go but don't get so messed up you need to be taken care of

Check out 3-5 houses that you're interested in and then narrow it down to 2-3 that you attend the majority of their events. Talk to as many brothers as you need to in order to decide if they fit what you're looking for and be sure to get to know the rush chairs.

Its definitely something thats understandable to be nervous about! I was in similar shoes as you in the fact that I had no connections to greek life or at least didn't have too many friends in one of the fraternities on campus. Definitely narrow down your options to a couple and figure out where you feel like you would fit in the best. If one doesnt feel right dont spend time trying to force it and move on somewhere else. Get to know the guys and have casual conversations with them, especially people like the president and recruitment chair, and see whats seems most natural to you.