so only one sorority asked me back

It is definitely harder as a soph. Don't be down on yourself. Give the one your best bc it really is about being a part of Greek life. Lots of girls are facing great disappointment right now. Now you can really determine if the remaining choice is a great fit for you, and hopefully it is!

Sometimes life just doesn't work the way you want it to. So if you have one opportunity make the most of that chance you have in front of you.

It can also be a lot of about luck you could have got paired up with total drips losers nobodies of the house so they don't have a support group to back you.

Good luck with the one house you do have left and if you do feel comfortable with the girl and you do like the house you might want to spin it that you only like this house and hope so much it works out.

Also there are snap bid so be sure to let your rho gam know that you are interested, if you are.