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You might get cut from a house that absolutely loved. It hards but it does happen! Keep giving the chapters you have a chance. Be openminded.

I wish I could have known which houses were genuine and which ones faked it the whole time during recruitment. Last year I was between two top tier houses, and it sucked to realize on bid day that the "sisterhood" was completely fake. I'm close to a few girls, but I've considered dropping many times because of it

Maybe you're one of those that "be realistic" posted you went under the radar and didn't actually fit in with the majority of the girls.
And really for the most part sisterhood is if you can find a niche with a few then make the most of it

sisterhood is the most important aspect when joining a chapter. look around the superficial to see what really matters

Don't rely on this website to choose what sorority you want to be in. Ultimately everything written on here is by someone with an unfair bias. It can aid you, but form your own opinions from the girls you meet. The system does work, just trust it.

When I was going through, I relied too much on tent talk to get excited about certain houses rather than being excited about all houses. During the first round, I was left standing alone at one of the "top tier" houses and was very uncomfortable in another. I ended up preffing 1 top tier, 1 mid tier and one house that thinks they are top tier but really are mid tier. I got my first choice and am VERY happy where I ended up, but I didn't think this was the place for me when recruitment started.

That if your worthy of a house they match you up with someone that might have similarities

Looks matter a lotttttttttt