Need some advice for rush

Rush is all about finding your home. It's meant to be a personal experience so if you liked those houses absolutely go for them. True friends wouldn't judge your decision, so if you feel supported by the sisterhood at those houses that's a great rush experience :)

I’d say get off this website bc none of it matters if you’re looking for your people, just let it happen you will meet so many lovely girls anywhere you go

Opening this I expected people to be mean but these replies are so heartwarming omg. This should prove to you that you need to go where you feel best!

Your friends sound like absolute losers💀

Go for those houses! They all have amazing girls an great sisterhoods, and it sounds like you need better friends.

You have to be really confident in yourself if you are going to join a low tier sorority. Like when i see people call my sisters mean things im able to be like “ok well i know myself better than anyone else and im not what they said our sorority is”. If you can be confident in yourself it’s SO worth it. Best decision i ever made.

It sounds like you have really bad friends who will probably end up dropping the sororities they join by sophomore year… Please do what is right for YOU. Those are great houses with great nationals and great connections…. You don’t need your “friends” when you join a house like those!!

All houses have great members. What you should be looking for is the house where you are most comfortable the members you have met.
Do you feel you can relax and be yourself among the members? Do you feel you can eat breakfast in the chapter house without yet showering or putting on makeup?
If you had a fight with your boyfriend, would you want true friends who will listen or shallow acquaintences who will not be interested?
Look to your heart and not superficially.