did i mess up?

honestly, your not "supposed" to say that, and if a PNM tells a girl in a chapter that and the girl does not feel the same way back to them it might make them feel very uncomfortable BUT if you love a house and the girls in the house love you I'm sure they will love to hear that. They usually just reply with an "awh thank you so much" because they can't really be like GREAT we love you too we want to give you a bid (thats dirty rushing). Last year i specifically told my girl that I looooved the house and everyone I talked to just so she knew that I was 100% committed to them and I got in so YAY!! GOOD LUCK YAY LAST ROUND TOMORROW!!!

Was it ...
a) "OMG, OMG, I love, love love this house. All my life I have wanted to be a Tri Zeta. I would absolutely die if I didn't get in"
b) "I really love you guys and this is my fave house"