what happens when you don’t fit in ?
by: New memI’m a new member in a chapter that I was super excited about during formal recruitment, I’ve been really active and participated once the events so far and tried to get to know a lot of the girls but I feel like the mood in completely different from during recruitment ( which I get since recruitment is your best self ). I don’t feel like I fit in at all but I want to stick it out and see if I meet more girls , connect more and fit in better by the time initiation comes around. Is it reasonable to drop if you still don’t fit in at all before initiation and try again during formal recruitment next year ? Or do you not usual fit into your chapter until much longer after initiation?
#1by: Hi
Sometimes people really dont end up where is their best fit. But you may still enjoy it so try to focus on trying it like you have been which is great first. If you feel uncomfortable and not in a good out of your comfort zone way, but just not feeling accepted, then dont waste the money. Keep in mind your options may differ next year being older and that a lot of sororities dont like girls who have dropped previously for fear you'll do it again, however some are open to giving you a chance to see if you fit better with them. Not to scare you but just so you know. Stick it out for now and see how u feel later. Ots reasonable to drop and try again if you still feel like this. Hope that helped best of luck
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