dropped

If you have a good gpa it’s not harder as a sophomore at all! I actually think sophomores sometimes do better bc they’re a bit more confident. Talk to your rho gams about KKG and go to some of their events later this week and see how you feel.

You shouldn't have dropped. You say 9 sororities dropped you which means you were still in the running for, like 12 or 13? Dumb.

Check Kappa or go informal but otherwise get over yourself. No sympathy for you.

These are the “entitled PNMs” or “too good” PNMs actives talk about. You don’t realize where you’ll fit until you’re there realistically. People overdramatize the “walking in and knowing immediately” thing so girls drop when they shouldn’t have because they didn’t have that moment of aw people describe.

Try Kappa. Try associate chapters. If you do informal or formal, try to keep more of an open mind.

it's nice the process worked for us but having gone through it and seeing so many people go through it they often have a better understanding of things and know that if they were to go through recruitment again, there are a lot of things they wish they knew. For me, I wish I had a more open mind to houses, which is why it's so upsetting to see girls who have multiple chapters left who would love to have that pnm back but the pnm is just like screw off even though they saw something in them. It is just sad. But then to also see pnms saying things like they had no good options left is just so ignorant. all the houses are great and you can find your group no matter who you join. But pnms think they know 100% they will not like it without ever even giving them the chance :p i just wish pnms could see more of what greek life is actually like because recruitment is not a good representation at all. even worse than that, the pnms are on this site which is easily the worst representation of chapters and greek life in general :/ not saying all pnms who drop are dumb or anything of the sort. It is just all too often that girls drop because they were not open minded to the possibilities of loving their new sisters.

I rushed this year as a sophomore with a pretty good gpa, involved on campus, and I'm pretty good at talking to people. I had the exact same situation as you. My top house dropped me after sisterhood and the houses I had left I had repeatedly put at the bottom of my list and they kept coming back but I could not see myself in them at all so I dropped from recruitment. I have friends who rushed as a sophomore and didn't have issues but in my opinion, it's a little harder as a sophomore. sorry this happened to you:( good luck with whatever you decide to do :)