asa vs sk

Torn between rushing the two of them-- I want to know about the actual house itself: rooms, kitchen, food, study rooms, living area.. Are meals catered? House moms? Rules that are out of ordinary? I think it's insane that no one talks about the actual quality of the house's themselves and more about the looks of the girls. I am an attractive smart girl but I want to actually ENJOY where I live for the next few years as it is like renting an apartment! Any advice?