sorority recruitment

Hello,

I'm coming to NAU next year from Colorado, and really want to join a sorority. No one in my family was Greek until my older sister went to a large SEC school and went through recruitment (her sorority is not at NAU). She's incredibly bubbly and outgoing, where I'm a bit more shy and reserved. Not that I can't have fun or talk to people, I just tend to take a bit to warm up, I guess. Remembering what her recruitment was like makes me freak out a bit.

How does recruitment here compare with these massive Greek schools?

- She had to hunt down multiple Recommendations for each sorority. Is that necessary here, or will one each do the trick? Or do you need them at all?

- She agonized over what to wear every day (Style, brands, colors). Is it that important (assuming you are dressed appropriately for the day) here?

- Everyone there says it's almost impossible to get into certain sororities there unless you're from the right suburb in that state. Is that true here, or will I be limited being out of state?

- If you aren't hung up on tiers, and just want to find a sorority that you can have fun in and make friends, is recruitment considered easy? My sister's school claims to have a tough recruitment, but something like 93% of girls get a bid. Is it high here too?

- People from her school started stalking her social media very early. Is that a thing here? I keep my Insta private. Should I not?

Thanks for any advice you might have. I can't wait to get to campus next year, I'm just a little overwhelmed by everything!

- Any other advice for me? I have excellent grades, activities and all of that sort of thing