pro-tip to pnms

Or maybe those organizations don't fit your personality type and you can join a different one. Those aren't for everybody dude, I rushed those fraternities and even got a couple of bids from a couple of them, but they weren't for me so I went with a different fraternity.

The point of my post was to stop being so concerned with whose "top," "upper-middle," or "middle" and stop dismissing solid chapters such as pi phi, kd, zeta, theta chi, ato, phikap, pikap, fiji that offer valuable and enjoyable Greek Life experience as much as the "top" chapters, and perhaps more so depending on your personality like that other comment said. Certain "middle" and "upper-middle" chapters may be the perfect fit for some pnms, yet you're insisting they should get into a "top" chapter and have a miserable Greek Life experience. Yes, there really are a few chapters that actually suck like adpi, but what you are saying is that if a chapter isn't on your personal "top" list, they are as bad as the worst i.e. do you really want say that piphi, kd, and even zeta are as bad as adpi?