don’t be flattered

PNMs, it’s very normal to feel flattered when APhi singles you out or breaks the rules for you. Please just know that it is because they are playing to win. They do it to many. They are good at putting on a show, no one denies that.

Recruitment involves statistics and their main goal is to “recruit #1” or whatever they keep saying on here. They want the highest percentage of girls to want to return as possible, regardless if they’re going to ask you back.

As you can read (in abundance) on this site, they make it look good but it’s not real. If they pick you it’s for what you can do for them, how you can make them appear to better.

Please ask yourself—
Do you really feel like you can be yourself there? Do you feel they’ll still want you if they know the real you? Or are you getting caught up in their game?

Ask yourself that of any house, and good luck.