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by: GL

Is it better to date non-greek if you are in a sorority? It seems to if you break up with a fraternity guy it would be weird to hang out there or with their brothers after. Is it less of a hassle dating someone not in a fraternity/sorority? Thoughts

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#1  by: NoNO   
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Sometimes! Yes It would be pretty awkward to hang out with them still or go to their parties and you probs shouldn't for a while. They are brothers, like most of us are sisters and their loyalty is with their brother no matter what they say or how they act.

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by: LPJun 27, 2017 4:29:09 PM

So truee

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#2  by: Kinda   
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It's up to you and how you feel and if it could be long term. I date a fraternity guy and have been for a while . So in some aspects I think isomer e Greek understands your commitment better. But def should avoid hanging out there or with them If you don't last. I know I wouldn't be around after. and it wouldn't make you look good either.

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#3  by: EH   
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Its probably the same no matter greek or not. You're not going to hang out with your exes friends at their house if you're done right? You shouldnt!

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by: LPJun 27, 2017 4:29:45 PM

Yeah hopefully not - that would be stupid.

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#4  by: Frat   
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We don't want no exes!!! Move along

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by: FrGuyJul 4, 2017 11:14:01 AM

Truuuuuuuuuue

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#5  by: YesYes   
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YES! Its better to date non-greek. Its less drama if you break up

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#6  by: Hey   
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Honestly there are probably some benefits to both but if you date a GDI it may be a little harder for them to understand the social aspect of Greek life like socials and date parties and formals. You can obviously bring them as your date but it might just make a little more sense to someone who is also Greek!

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by: AgreeJul 6, 2017 5:07:07 PM

I so get your point and agree. It's just rough if it doesn't end well and you are both greek with you hanging around that fraternity. And really you shouldn't hang around. Find other places to go because you wont be welcomed as you once were. It may be ok here and there but most likely you put them in an awkward situation. It will not be the same and you may make yourself look silly. They will always be loyal to their brother. Trust me - been there.

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#7  by: Lbc   
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Know your place if you break up. It's not at his frat.

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#8  by: Lo   
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Seriously if you used to date one of our brothers and you broke up move on. That includes where you hang .we will still be nice to you when we see you but it shouldn't be at our parties or house. A girl asked this question cause a guy knows it's not cool. Don't cause drama

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#9  by: No   
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Don't be that girl that asks to come to our party's after u broke up. . We are going to ask your ex if he cares before we bother to answer. But u sure are making it awkward even asking and u made it so now we have to stop and be in this awkward situation and feel barely obligated to answer because we may want to bag your friend. Check yourself

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by: LOLAug 15, 2017 11:05:58 AM

TRUTH!

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by: AgreeAug 15, 2017 3:24:29 PM

100

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