my advice for girls in the Greek lif or thinking abt

I posted this on a thread abt reputations of sororities here and responded to one of the ones that I thought was the most accurate but it hasn't really been seen since it's only a reply but has gotten more likes then the post itself so wanted to put it out there to share so others girls can see it too.

This is the most real post I've seen so if your gonna take anything even if you have preconceived opinions or are on here looking for one here's my advice and what me and a lot of other girls and younger girls IK wish we knew. Don't go into this with wanting what you see online or because you heard girls in a certain ones: party with the hottest boys or are the prettiest or the richest or the best house or the nicest girls. Not everyone is going to be the nicest especially after formal rush is over. The houses are pretty sure but if your not gonna live in it (the rooms smaller then the dorms) dw abt it. Everyone has fun and all the chapters have events. It's really a mix of girls but everyone has pretty girls. Boys are dumb and are gonna like who they like. At the end of the day isn't gonna matter the name of who you belong to them unless they want a stupid bragging right that no one thinks is cool but 4 boys in a dumb frat. We are all paying for it so much as well pick a house you like and get along with and will be happy and accepted in then have the one you think you want but really don't click with and are gonna stay on the outside off. Girls please be a little more real and don't go in with the typical mindset but rather no mindset and be you!