I know this is irrelevant and Random
by: Random
Hey y’all. I wanted to come on here and stay extremely anonymous to ask for advice, it has nothing to do with Greek life at all, but as college students are relatively in similar situations, I wanted to hear some unbiased, completely anonymous advice!
Growing up, my aunt used to be treated like gold and my dad horribly. Now in my own life, my dad manifests that hateful energy onto me= treating me horribly and treating all my brothers like kings.
My dad has even told me to my face that he hopes I don’t succeed in life, that “i’ll learn my lesson one day”, and that he doesn’t know “how on earth I even got into NYU, and that my degree is useless”.
everyone says not to pay attention to his remarks, but as a college student working so hard all the time, it’s so hard to work on a thesis all night long, just to have one of your parents tell you you’re a failure.
I’m gonna graduate with honors, my gpa is pretty high, and I’ve never really done anything bad in my life, yet i’m still the “family disappointment”.
what would y’all do if you were in this predicament
#1 by: sad
it’s kinda sad that a few ppl saw this and didn’t say a word. I’m going to assume that your dad is taking out his frustrations of his own fails in life onto you and thinks that he can gain some type of closure for how he was mistreated by mistreating you. It all sounds extremely misogynistic, toxic, etc. If you are able to leave, but I know that it’s not easy for everyone. I moved out and started renting in the city my sophomore year and it was the best thing I ever did. I’d say just avoid him at all costs. I feel bad because you should have another outlet to confide into besides greek rank :/
Stay safe! I hope everything works out for you! and I’m sure you were smart enough to get in to our uni or else you wouldn’t have gotten in LMAO
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by: Random May 24, 2021 6:13:15 PM
@Sad…thank you so much for replying
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