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PLEASE BE HONEST

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I want to preface this by saying I am not trying to bash anyone, I do not get my information from online forms but I really need your help this one time because I need an unbiased opinion. The site is anonymous so please speak at will. I am a new member of dphie. They were my dream sorority and I loved them all throughout recruitment. They were fun and upbeat and kind. Now since I have joined, everything has changed. Everyone is self obsessed, there are so many unwritten rules, and cliques. It seems I will be judged for everything I do. Please help, someone with experience- what is DPHIE really like??? Before I commit and while there is still time, I would like to know the truth!! I would not be asking on here if I had anyone else to turn to.

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not even in dphie but I doubt this was a new member. this just seems like a PNM trying to cause trouble.

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by: not true    

No way for me to prove it but please take my word, I truly am a new member. I never use the site

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I am having a difficult time believing you are sincere and just not trying to bash this sorority. In literally a matter of a few days you’ve determined “ Everyone is self obsessed, there are so many unwritten rules, and cliques. “We are in the middle of a pandemic and no way you’ve met everyone and what does that say about you passing judgement . Have you reached out to your pledge class or active member ? Good try .. sorry but I call BS on this post.

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by: not true    

I have reached out to both actually and talked about dropping and I’ve gotten very biased responses which is exactly why I turned here where it’s third-party and unbiased

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by: lol   

reach out to ur new member educator if you’re actually a new member

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by: D   

Just saying the whole org will probknow who u r if ur being serious. This isn’t a good look for u.

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by: Hi   

I did reach out and was ignored

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by: WTH   

Ok so I would have also loved to get a bid from them. I don’t get what you are expecting like somebody else said seriously it’s a pandemic and you seem super high maintenance . Replace with any orgs name and I would feel the same and serious you’ve now outed yourself and all over GR!!

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Let me just say I along w dozens of other girls would love to take ur place.

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#4by:    
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Are you serious? I cried all day Saturday and Sunday because I felt worthless about not getting a bid, and then it’s people like you who just want to rub it in and say that it’s garbage when so many girls did not go to bid. I’m so lucky to have done COB but many girls did not do it and don’t even have the opportunity you have. Stop complaining and make the most of it

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I don't really think this is an honest/genuine post but my advice to you is: reach out to actives, go on sister dates, get to know multiple girls and ask them! They'll be honest about pros/cons. They've been in your shoes and you might make friends along the way regardless if you decide to stay/drop.

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