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Entitlement in people who got bids and want to drop

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Am i the only one who feels like people who are complaining about not liking the sorority they accepted a bid from are so entitled? This whole process was up to YOU from start to finish. You had the opportunity to decline their invitations, and you had the opportunity to decline their bid, but you accepted it and screwed over not only another girl that would have loved to be in your place but ALSO the organization that spent time and energy on you.

In normal recruitment, it is done by an algorithm so you may get stuck with people you don’t like, but you chose this. So unfair to those who didn’t get bids or would have rather a bid from the organization you accepted.

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isn't the whole point of the process to get to know the orgs better? Accepting an invite doesn't have to mean you love the org yet but you want to learn more and see if you do. I can see your point about the bids but when so many girls barely got any invites in the first place you can't blame them for trying to make it work with the options they had and if it didn't then you're allowed to drop in normal recruitment as well so

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Yeah, people drop in normal recruitment too, but normally there aren’t so many girls at the end that don’t get bids so it feels really unfair.

And i think if people are actually interested in “getting to know the sorority better” they should know that virtual bid day is probably not the best way to do that. Most people who stick it out and commit will like any sorority, and if you really want then i feel like you should have known that when you accepted.

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