picky for what?????

coming to nyu i did not think I would join a sorority because I was not the sorority type and scared of big southern sororities cause they're crazy but I decided to join here because it was chill and not intense and I just wanna make some friends.i respect the efforts in organizing recruitment and I know its difficult, but I'm a little confused as to what they want. i did well in all of my breakout rooms, had great conversations, and whether it matters or not: I am decently attractive. 3 sororities dropped me after round robin and after doing round 1 in the other sororities, I have been dropped by every one except one. i was told that nyu is not competitive and everyone for the most part gets a bid and has options, but I might not even get a bid if this last one does not want me. my friend is in the same situation when we both have great personalties. i don't understand what I could have done wrong in a zoom meeting, but these sororities act like they are the coolest things in the world.. its an nyu sorority not alabama... but go off