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Invites from different tiers?

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So I got only 2 invitations, one was from a so called top tier one and the other was from the so called bottom tier one. I wonder why the ones in the middle didn’t invite me back? (I really liked one of the so called middle ones) (sorry no offense with the tiers thingy I’m just confused)

Posted By: Pnm
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sometimes the ones in the "middle" may assume you will get picked up by the "top" and want to give other girls a chance who they think will stick with them in comparison. not going to comment on "bottom" or not but ur time in their room may have resonated with them

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by: wow   

This honestly makes a lot more sense cause I got a bunch of invites from so called “top tier” orgs but like none from mid and low tier. I thought it was a joke or I did something weird lol.

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Idk but please don’t accept invites from orgs if you’re already thinking of them as “bottom tier”. That is so rude

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each org has different events on different days so their invite process is on different schedules. don't think of any sorority as "top tier" or "bottom tier" because you'll set yourself up with misinformed expectations. you got invited (so far) to two orgs with unique women, just move forward with how you feel when you talk to them

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what are top-tier/bottom-tier orgs? this is so weird.... just go and have fun.

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by: pnm   

i thought i cared too but i realized this isn't highschool lol. i (and other people) would just look stupid and be wasting our time caring about popularity at such a big school like NYU and at literal college it means nothing

By: pnm
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I thought i would care but I’ve loved one “bottom tier” org so much. Feels like they care and are doing so much to make us feel welcomed.

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by: pnm   

same! i feel shallow for saying this but i def did think i'd care. but they're being so genuine and so fun i appreciate it sm we might be talking abt the same one lmao

By: pnm
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This happened to me too and I’ve been really stressed about it. My rho gamma said the same thing as the other comments and to still keep going to their events.

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