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by: confused

Honestly I am so confused. I thought everyone was getting a lot of invites back? I got 7 and most people I know did too. WTF is going on?

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#1  by: : /    
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lol that makes me kinda sad. that really didn't happen for me. i was leaning on rush a bit to make a solid friend group bc i've always planned on being in a sorority and i just moved to ny from across the country. i should've just stuck to usc or ucla like my friends

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by: HiOct 5, 2020 11:20:02 PM

Have you reached out to your rho gamma? She can find out what’s going on for you. Did you get dropped from every org or just from the ones you wanted?

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by: helloOct 5, 2020 11:20:15 PM

you don't need a sorority to make friends!! i know zoom is hard and new york can be isolating, but you will eventually find your people, especially when things get back to being in person. And you can always rush next year if you feel like being in a sorotiy is super important to you

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#2  by: : /   
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@Hi i got dropped from all of them except the breakout room where i literally didn't talk so like
i'm hesitant to believe they cared about me specifically v.s. just sending out lots of invites considering i wasn't given the opportunity to say anything

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by: HelloOct 6, 2020 9:00:40 AM

That’s true, but you never really know. They could also like you after getting to know you, it just sounds like they didn’t get the chance to, so I wouldn’t rule them out yet if you still want to be in a sorority.

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by: !Oct 6, 2020 1:35:58 PM

A lot of times if you don’t get a chance to talk, the sorority will invite you back Bc they want to get to know you more before making a decision! Definitely means they care more because they want to give you a chance!

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#3  by: pnm    
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i think what the original pnm meant more is that like it feels bad to only be invited by one that doesn't know you that well yet, even if they want to get to know you better, bc it means that everyone who actually does / did know you didn't think you were worth it. maybe i'm wrong but a similar thing happened to my friend and that's what she said and i felt so bad.

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