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by: pnm

y'all why did i even bother rushing. got back no invites so far, i know some ppl are in the same boat but tbh everyone ive talked to irl has gotten at least 2. my friend got some invites last night and told me to wait til the morning that maybe id get one, but no. what went wrong :( i know i should wait for the rest of the week but this process is definitely leaving me feeling awful rn. if i didnt hear from the half that have sent our invites already, why should the other half like me more? i felt like i did everything right, smiling, laughing, etc. anyone else feel like this? not saying this to 'bash the process', but this is how i feel

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#1  by: keepurheadup   
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(literally i have no info so take this as theory) hey, it might just be they reached an internal limit on invites and are waiting to see the responses on their first wave. they might also have assumed you would get picked up by another org and that made the difference in their decisions for people and capacity. if anything, some will prob do spring recruitment and thats a lot more relaxed and chances are better

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#2  by: Panhel   
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Keep an open mind! Still totally possible to receive an invite, not all orgs have send them out yet! Reach out to your rho gamma with questions (Greek rank is not the best source of info)

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#3  by: Hi   
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Some orgs are invited in phases, so a group will be invited to the first event but not the second, and some people will be invited to the second but not the first! So don’t be discouraged, it’s likely administrative and so they can see more people!

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#4  by: pnm   
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it turns out that my email was wrong so i never got any of my invites! I told my rho gamma to update it and then got 2 invites immediately

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by: pnmOct 5, 2020 12:36:22 PM

how did you find out your email was wrong? Is there anyway I can check. lol i’m desperate

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by: pnmOct 5, 2020 12:41:38 PM

i expressed that i didn't get any invites to her and asked if any of my information wrong, she sent me what was submitted, and then i noticed my email was so wrong. I was just feeling desperate and asked. They're very helpful!!

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#5  by: pnm   
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girl how many times do they have to tell you??? JUST BECAUSE YOU DONT GET INVITES IN THE FIRST SET DOESNT MEAN YOU WONT GET ANY. everyone on here just needs to chill out. some organizations are going to get some no's back which will give more space to invite more pnms later

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#6  by: pnm   
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I didn't get any either. I was wave 2. I'm trying not to catastrophize and hoping that I might get an invite to a later event. As much as it sucks, it was cool to meet new people .

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