how do orgs even decide which people to send invites?
by: hey
the round robins were so short. i literally talked for < 5 minutes for each. how do orgs deny / send invites based on that and how do they even remember?
also does the time you get your invite mean anything or is that administrative
#1 by: ask rho ghammas
hi, i would direct this question to your rg but I will take a stab at it. most orgs (i assume) will be keeping an open mind and inviting most girls back. you would be surprised how trained girls can be at finding red flags. sometimes the PNM's are also rude to orgs they don't want and that leaves a bad impression. i would suggest pnms keep going to every event they can or are invited to in order to really find their home. lastly, i dont believe timing on invites means anything its just overwhelming to the teams sending them
Commentby: ask rho ghammasOct 5, 2020 9:46:18 AM
by red flags i mean super super obvious outliers. being rude to other pnm's in the room with you, rude to the sisters, discriminatory comments, or just really wild stuff like only asking about parties (which is appropriate in general but not if you ask about alc and stuff). stuff that you would have to be blindfolded with earplugs in to ignore as a potential issue
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#2 by: hey
thanks! yeah i didn't do any of that cause obviously none of that is acceptable. idk i haven't gotten any invites and i'm a bit worried bc i was part of a sorority at my last uni and i rly liked it. recruitment was rly smooth for me considering it was more of a stereotypical greek uni too. and then like nobody invited me back and i was confused nyu already feels so isolating i feel like i should've just stayed at my past uni so now i'm just trying to think abt what i did wrong
by: pnmOct 5, 2020 10:18:24 AM
hey i also only got one invite and im kinda worried but its good to know some of us are in the same boat!
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by: —Oct 5, 2020 3:17:41 PM
hey you probably haven’t gotten any invites back bc you’re not allowed to join a new sorority if you have already been initiated into one at a different school. hope this helps
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by: thoughtsOct 5, 2020 10:11:12 PM
hi!! I would say to any PNMs reading this, a lot of recruitment is a numbers and logistics game. we have a certain amount of spots we can give back for each round according to our nationals and NYU panhel. please don’t let not being called back feel like a reflection of your character!
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by: heyOct 5, 2020 9:39:58 AM
thanks :) yeah i'll def ask my rg it's just the whole process seems scary and like i don't think i did anything wrong but i don't want to be misinterpreted or judged for small things i guess. what do u mean by red flags?
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