just so everyone knows you will be fine

No matter what sorority u are LUCKY enough to get into...we all party. we all end up at the same 2 frat parties because everyone is invited. its always overcrowded and its 10 girls to 1 guy so you really won't be that into it for long. if you go based on tiers, its so obvious to us (this is coming from a "top tier" member). you can tell when someone is kissing your ass, you can tell when someone is bored and not interested. just try to be the person's equal, see if YOU could be friends with them and stop with the desperation.