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You're the girl that made a lasting connection with me. You thought you found a home. But we cut you. And you're pissed. I want to tell you, you weren't wrong, we did make a connection and I wanted you too. For whatever reason it didn't work out. Maybe you didn't connect with enough of my sisters, Maybe I wasn't strong enough in fighting for you. The numbers just didn't work out. I'm sorry. Well, I'm not sorry really, I'm pissed too! But this doesn't mean I didn't feel the same thing as you. After this is all over, I hope we can find each other and still be friends. There's no reason we can't (we're not warring counties! lol). I really did like you. Come find me and let's hang out and get to know each other.

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#1  by: Bravo   
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This is about the most sincere post of all. Ever on this site. What an incredible way to describe the process and that while it may not work out, it doesn't (always) mean what everyone thinks. I wish you'd actually say which house you're from because you seem like a genuine definition of a sister.

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#2  by: Beautiful   
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Honest and truthful!

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#3  by: and    
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Dear OP, I'm pretty sure you are a lesbian. That isn't a bad thing. It is what it is. But creeping on this PNM isn't appropriate.

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by: UhFeb 7, 2016 8:08:49 PM

"and" you are misguided. Go sit in a corner and think about your life. OP, you're great. My sorority doesn't have a "debate" process like yours but I hope the girls who we didn't call back (or who didn't list us first) who I connected with will still reach out.

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by: ^Feb 7, 2016 11:03:15 PM

Oh come on. Admit this is creepy. I agree that the process to getting people in isn't always fair. And the strong voices tend to get what they want. But this post is just weird. She needs to cool her jets. It's only rush.

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#4  by: bump   
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bumping this because I'm feeling the same way about a pnm

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by: omgFeb 8, 2016 1:15:32 AM

it is creepy

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#5  by: keepingitreal   
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This OP seems very sincere and all but if you're asking the pnm that you made a connection with but was cut by your house to reach out to you, hello.....YOU need to reach out to her. She's probably wondering what the &%$# happened and feels like she had the rug pulled out from under her when all the people she spoke to at pref made it pretty clear that she was a great fit. This is such a weird process and hoping it works out for most new pledges.

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by: ^Feb 8, 2016 11:11:46 AM

Or you could let it go and let the girl get comfortable in her new home. Seems a little selfish and self serving to keep trying to get into her head.

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#6  by: Post PNM   
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As a post PNM this was helpful. You get to a point where you think- Am I crazy? Did I not just have a great connection in there? WTF happened!?

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#7  by: calm down   
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Maybe the PNM didn't put you first on her list. Maybe you think there was a connection and there wasn't.

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