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If you like them, go for it. One thing I will say though is they are very good at putting on a show. Take from that what you may

if you love them after pref, go there. People say a lot of nasty things about every sorority, especially those in high competition. Everyone steps up for recruitment, because sororities want you. But some of the little moments that I'm sure you've seen/felt can't be made up, and at the end of the day this is what the process is for and you should pref wherever you feel most at home. Not what your friends, or your parents, or your rho gamma, or the internet, say you belong.

You'll figure it out! Every sorority has bad things said about them, that's just girls being rude and competitive. I have a lot of friends from my freshman year dorm in Theta and they're some of my closest friends still. Just go where you feel most comfortable.

Go with your gut. Every sorority, especially the top ones, have catty things said about them on here. I have close friends in Theta, and they are awesome and love their sorority sisters. I enjoy hanging out with them and feel welcome even though I'm in another top sorority, which has also been bashed on here. Follow your instincts. You will end up in the right place.

Go with your gut. Every sorority, especially the top ones, have catty things said about them on here. I have close friends in Theta, and they are awesome and love their sorority sisters. I enjoy hanging out with them and feel welcome even though I'm in another top sorority, which has also been bashed on here. Follow your instincts. You will end up in the right place.

Honestly you shouldn't base your opinion off anyone else's or this site. Everyone on here tries to bash each other to make them selves look better so don't think too much about what is said. Go with your gut, it's hard to fake being genuine so if you feel those genuine qualities in there that's a good sign.

This sounds horrible but what if I love them and another sorority that doesn't have as great of a rep as theta? And I feel at home at both. I don't wanna pick based on reputation but I don't know what to do since I love them equally

I thank god every day that I didnt end up picking theta. Their name just blind sides people. It's not worth it

This is a decision that only you can make. Go where you love. Only so much of recruitment can be faked... If you love it then don't be scared. no matter what sorority you go, people will say bad things