honestly

I fell in love with my middle tier sorority at sprite dates and wanted them all through rush. So many people post on this website acting like everybody by default wants to be in the "top tier" sororities, but it's just not true. Don't let that cloud your decision. Honestly, if I had opened my bid card on bid day and it had been any of the upper tier, I would have been devastated, because I had already found my home. The sorority you are excited to go back to, the one where you feel comfortable-- that's where you should go. Top Tier, Bottom Tier, Middle Tier, It doesn't matter.