Bidding Advice plz

How many guys do you know at your top frat? If you know most already then I would be concerned. Was there someone there who told you they would fight for your bid? If so, ask him for his honest opinion on your chances. Regardless I think you should go back so they know you are still interested. If you’ve only spoken with a few guys then they simply need to get to know you better. Go there first tonight and if you get negative vibes then follow your instincts and spend considerable time at your second choice house as well.

Look at a bunch of different houses. In last year's Rush, at one of the big Alpha chapters, there were ~65 legacies going thru Rush, for only ~50 bids. They couldn't take all the legacies even if they wanted to, and of course, there were great non-legacies they wanted.

There's so many FANTASTIC houses at Miami. Find the one that wants you and you want them. You will be happy in the long run. I promise.