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Yes if after a few weeks you are still not feeling comfortable don't initiate and try again next year.

Can't help but think I hurt my chances elsewhere by being a legacy. At least that's what my older friends told me is what happened. OP, they say give it time. Keep reminding myself that every sorority is big enough that I will definitely find a few girls I click with. Trying to be patient and positive

Sorry you didn't get your first choice. But things do have a way of working out in the end so don't quit too early. There are more than 50 girls in each pledge class and you'll likely bond with several of them as well as a group of active members. That's probably as many as you'd have been close to anyway in your first choice. And the nice thing about Miami is that you will have great friends from other houses and around campus.