Help with rush pls!

I mean only you know what you really want to do. Don’t focus on a sorority in terms of it being a top or not bc it doesn’t mean much. Those top sororities do snap bids sometimes because they are too picky and cut so many girls and overestimate how many girls will pick them but they don’t really COB much. As far as frats go yes I know they mix with frats bc my friend is in dz. They are overall a chill group and don’t have crazy expensive dues but still have a lot of events

don’t go into a sorority for the reputation or frats, you JUST spent days talking about philanthropy and sisterhood
if you’re rly that considered you shouldn’t be rushing anyways

If you like DZ, I wouldn’t drop in the hopes of getting a snap bid from one of the top tiers, because it’s very unlikely. MOST people do not end up with their top house, and that’s okay. For most PNMs, they get a house they liked and they grow to love it. Did you make connections at DZ and enjoy your time there? Could you see those girls or the other girls who have been at their parties as your sisters? If so, give them a chance, even if they weren’t one of your top choices going into it.

If you truly don’t want to be in DZ, drop so they can give that spot to someone who wants it and then either hope for a snap bid or try your luck with COB.