dear pnms

Dear PNMs,
With recruitment right around the corner, I think it's important to remind you all that most of the stuff you read on this website is petty garbage. I encourage you to focus solely on the posts that spread positivity, rather than those aimed at tearing another chapter down. There are amazing women in every single chapter on this campus and I promise you that there is at least one girl you can like or relate to in every sorority. We're not all that different. While we wear different letters, at the end of the day we are all young women trying to make the most of our college years and surround ourselves with people who will help us do that. While going through recruitment, look for THOSE girls. Stay true to yourself and your values and you'll end up where you belong. Also keep in mind that "top house" and "bottom house" mean literally NOTHING. Sisterhood is sisterhood. You'll still go to parties, you'll still meet boys, you'll still have a good 4 years even if you're not in the prettiest, "most popular" house. Follow your heart and you'll do just fine.
Good luck,
a Panhellenic-loving active