is it bad to hang out w girls in sororitys?

That’s called being dirty rushed and you should report it to panhel if other chapters find out it probably will hurt your chances and waiting until recruitment to get to know girls is the best way to do it

You’re being dirty rushed, these girls don’t actually care about you, if they did they wouldn’t manipulate you and put you in a harmful situation. If another sorority knows you’re being dirty rushed, they will drop you to save their own numbers. So many girls get dropped from that chapter (we don’t need to name) after being dirty rushed and then screw themselves over with the other decent houses Bc they’re so convinced they’re gonna be in x chapter. News flash... these girls have no say in their recruitment process. Hang out with freshmen and don’t get caught up in the bs.

honey you're being dirty rushed and we all know what chapter it is. I would honestly go report it to panhel because it will be anonymous. They do it to a lot of girls but the girls are too scared to report it because they think it will lower their chances, but if any other sorority finds out you're hanging out with the chapter that's reaching out to you like that, you'll be instantly dropped

Happened to me last year. Then they dropped me on the first day and I feel like it hurt my chances with my second and third choice. I like where I ended up but it wasn’t what I expected to end up with.