what do top houses look for?

adpi and aphi you have to be pretty. unless youre a legacy its just a given. theyre different tho bc adpi looks for more grades, involvement, reputation etc with like a "cool girl" vibe. while aphi wants attractive, bubbly, more "it girl" / popular girl in highschool vibe.

dg takes the girls that are nice and pretty that dont necessarily meet either of those. aephi is completely different, they are super trendy and have a idgaf attitude. theyre all wealthy and hot. kappa delta likes the highest gpas, classiness, and all around sociable.

top houses arent everything, just saying. dont be upset when they drop you, theyre honestly overrated.

legacies are like people who have family members that have been in it. each house is diff depending on how strictly they follow it. like some wont care while others 100% have to give you a bid.

ok so they don't care about looks. I wish other people would stop saying that--anyone who says that is clearly from a different chapter on campus.

if you liked the girls in adpi and aphi during open house then chances are they liked you!!! remember, a connection goes both ways!

I don't think the sororities recruit for different things, I think we all look for girls who are genuinely kind, fun, would mesh well with the other girls in the chapter, care about academics, and maybe are involved on campus. Continue to be yourself like you were at open house and you'll find your home!