Cut from sorority that lead me on
by: SadI’ve been on the verge of tears all day and I can’t stop feeling absolutely worthless. I met so many girls in this sorority and was told that I would be a great fit. I was even jokingly given a “big” and talked into signing housing contracts. And after all that, they cut me today. Im so torn up. They’re the only “top” sorority I have because I never bothered rushing anyone else. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do or just give some words of comfort?
Commentby: BroJan 13, 2022 9:56:48 PM
That’s BS. If this is true and you told Panhellenic, they would have definitely done something
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by: heyJan 13, 2022 10:05:39 PM
i wouldn’t be so sure of that. i know that Panhellenic barely gave the sorority that dirty rushed me a slap on the wrist. you forget that a lot of the girls on exec are members of sororities that dirty rush
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#2 by: hey
i know where you’ve been. as stupid as it sounds, I went into a depressive episode last year because I was cut by a sorority that all my upperclassmen friends were in. it didn’t help that all my close friends got in and we’re constantly posting about it or ditching me for events. like you, I was lead on and completely blindsided when I was cut.
I joined another sorority and I honestly regret it. People told me to give it a chance and I really did, but I just never fit in. most of my friends are still in the other sorority and I just can’t form friendships with girls in the one I’m in. and ngl I’m jealous when I see the fun things they get to do and the way guys look at them when they say what sorority they’re in (versus the look they give me). it sucks.
my advice is to try it out but don’t make the mistake I did and initiate if you’re not feeling it. even if you don’t rush again next year, you’re better off not spending all that money on a sorority that you’re hearts not fully in. and people will treat you differently if you’re in a bottom sorority so you’re better off being non affiliated
by: ?Jan 13, 2022 10:18:12 PM
by: heyJan 13, 2022 10:28:36 PM
like i said, a lot of my friends are in it and they get a lot of social perks. i was never popular in high school and I hoped college would be different. i never explicitly thought about it that way though—they might get frats, but they were pretty terrible to me
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#3 by: I’m sorry
If your talking about kappa this happened to so many girls this year. They dirty rushed so hard promising girls bids and saying to not plan on even “rushing” other sororities cuz they’ll find you a way in. But then sisiterhood round came and they were all dropped
by: heyJan 13, 2022 10:30:10 PM
not op, but it makes me feel better that I’m not the only girl they did that stuff to. they kept me through philanthropy though, which hurts more because you’re supposed to be good to go after that round
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by: we see youJan 13, 2022 10:35:06 PM
by: -Jan 13, 2022 10:46:47 PM
the only round your good to go on is pref if you maximized your options and didn’t suicide and even then you might end up in your other house lmao
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by: SadJan 13, 2022 10:58:38 PM
Op here! I didn’t name any sororities in this post and I don’t intend to. I just wanted some advice/comfort. This is honestly one of the worst days for me
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#4 by: sorry
I am so sorry. I know nothing I say can magically make this better. I want you to know that your feelings are absolutely valid. Cry about it if you need to, vent to someone you trust, get it out of your system. Tomorrow, try to be present for the sororities you have left. As for the tiers, I willingly chose a “lesser” sorority on pref over a “top” and I couldn’t be happier. From day one I knew that these were the girls I fit in best with. I think you’ll find that the people who care about something as silly as ranks aren’t people worth talking to in the first place.
by: Bu expertJan 14, 2022 1:10:41 AM
Be thankful
It is a blessing you are not going to be in Pi Phi or Kappa as it seems they are taking all the leftovers from other sorority cuts. They probably won’t even make quota. Even Chi0 is getting a better group than them.
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by: PatheticJan 14, 2022 1:51:43 AM
It’s so sad how you feel the need to lie about those chapters. As usual, everyone else is getting their cuts. Sucks that you and op weren’t good enough to make the cut!
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by: …Jan 14, 2022 10:20:59 AM
by: IJan 14, 2022 11:03:55 AM
by: WowJan 14, 2022 11:14:56 AM
Where’s the Christ-love in your comment? How do you think that helped or encouraged her? The answer is there is no Christ-love and it didn’t help. Please check your prideful heart and realize you’re identity is obviously in your sorority and not Jesus
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by: @WowJan 14, 2022 8:46:44 PM
Please stop. Just stop. You sound so pompous I'm literally ashamed for you. Shockingly enough, I do not believe God's purpose for you was for you to passively aggressively Christian shame someone on GR.
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by: ???Jan 23, 2022 11:44:05 AM
I cannot even believe someone would post something like this??? There is a reason tons of girls do not want to be in "top" sororities because the girls are shallow and rude like that. OP I am so so sorry this happened to you but trust me you do not want to be in a sorority that would do you (and so many other girls) dirty like that. The are so many sororities that truly have strong sisterhood and share the love of Christ with their sisters and some of the quote "top" sororities are not it...
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by: HahaJan 20, 2022 5:34:19 PM
Are you dumb? They’re talking about signing up for a house with other girls, not a sorority house
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by: LmaoJan 22, 2022 9:52:10 PM
by: yesJan 24, 2022 10:42:08 PM
I know girls this has happened to. One girl went ahead and signed a lease on a house with some other girls b/c they were all going to go XYZ sorority and all of them did, except for one b/c she got cut from that sorority. Kinda hard to get out of living with them at that point. I still don't understand why people do that.
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by: LmaoJan 25, 2022 8:35:24 AM
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by: SadJan 13, 2022 9:40:09 PM
I told Panhellenic but they didn’t do anything. They didn’t even ask for specifics. I know I shouldn’t care about being top but I can’t help but feel like a loser
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