I put dphie first and didn’t get a bid

I am really confused about what happened yesterday. I was skeptical about going through recruitment but I felt like I really connected with the girls at dphie so I put them first on my list. I got my other house which I wasn’t interested in joining but I didn’t single-intentional pref bc I was told not to. In my last conversation with dphie a girl told me she thought I would be a great fit for the chapter, and we had a great chat. The girl I talked to DM’ed me on insta and said she was bummed I wasn’t there and asked if I wanted to COB, but I signed the MRABA so now I can’t join dphie for a year. I’m so done with greeklife now, but I had been excited to be in dphie.