sorority chances?
by: FSUNOLEZOkay I really want to rush but I'm having second thoughts because of the way I look. I'm very tall and very overweight.. but I'm very well groomed and take pride in my personality and the way I dress, even though I'm not a typical skinny girl. I'm afraid that my weight will be the difference between me getting into a house or not. Do many sororities take weight into consideration?
#11 by: Bs and more bs
Op, you have said you are considerably overweight and you are having doubts about rushing.
Yes it will affect and narrower your chances absolutely!
Are you comfortable with being judged on looks, personality academics ect?
If you are then fine, give it a try but know the process is not easy even for girls who fit the image.
Don't rush if you can't handle rejection
Simple as that
#17 by: Hey op
OP, I'll be very blunt with you as someone who has been through recruitment and had their time in a chapter. I guarantee you that you will find yourself a chapter that will accept you but I cannot guarantee you that there will be girls ready to accept you with open arms. I was in a lower sorority and they blatantly discussed getting better standards in terms of unattractive girls during rush with a new pledge class in the room. All in all, these sororities are only here to make themselves money and continue their chapters legacy. If you want to make a name for yourself and feel confident and happy with yourself, I would advise that you give yourself a year and explore various different organizations on campus that are less superficial and more inclined to help you in your career. I know you want to join a sorority but it will break you and make you feel bad about yourself in ways that you don't and won't understand unless you are in one. Being in a lower tier sorority may mean that they will accept you, but only under the conditions that you will hide until you better yourself and become conventionally attractive. There are much better options than this, please believe me.
Post Reply
Before you type: Remember, do not post names, initials, or any derogatory content.
YOU MAY ALSO LIKE
Didn't find your school?Request for your school to be featured on GreekRank.
by: Bad adviceAug 5, 2015 12:50:48 PM
I would advise against rushing spring because only a handful of houses do spring and only about 3-4 girls generally get chosen & its usually the gorgeous ones that have a lot to offer the organization or the ones that already have really good relations with a lot of the girls