bid promising

That is incredibly wrong to do and every Panhellenic woman knows that I would suggesting reporting it to Panhellenic - it won't necessarily get them in trouble, it will probably just get them a fine and serve as a reminder that it isn't fair to a PNM to do that, one because it makes them uncomfortable but two they actually can not do that.

However, I understand if you're not comfortable doing that. You should just remember to stick with keeping an open-mind about the houses, not letting that affect your decision, because you are in no way obligated to choose that house even after they said that.

LITERALLY WTF. please tell Panhellenic.

I'm concerned that if I do tell Panhellenic, that she will figure out that it was me who told, & will start bad-mouthing me to her sisters & friends in other sororities, thus ruining any chances I have at other houses. I'm in between a rock & a hard place.

I would think if you told on your friend and her sorority got in trouble that would ruin your chances of getting into that house or any other. No one likes a narc.

Don't tell Pan. it is against the rules but not worth the drama. Just forget about it. If you like that house, awesome! If you dont, she isnt going to hate you or anything so just dont worry about it.

She already told me how "disappointed in me" she'd be if I didn't pick her house. Which, whatever, but I really don't wanna screw up my chances elsewhere. Plus, she keeps telling me how "terrible" the other houses are, how "lame" they are, etc... & I'm of the opinion that every house has something to offer, not only to the Greek community, but to the FSU community as well. Not to mention, philanthropy! (I'm H U G E on philanthropy!)

keep talking here and I'm
pretty sure all your fears will come true in regard to the active "bad mouthing" or her being upset with you .. I'm sure if she reads this, she'll know this is about her...

"ain't" ... nice grammar. I can almost assure you ... I'm not in your house.

oh noez!!1 i put grow instead of grown! better correct it & watch out, lest you try to come at me again!!! :( :( :( :( :(

lmao

Well, that escalated quickly... All that catfighting is not a pleasant look, ladies!

Tell Panhellenic if she continues to bother you. If it's a one-time thing, eh, I'd probably let it slide, since people tend to get excited around this time of the year.

Otherwise, if she continues to bother you and make you feel uncomfortable, I would discreetly mention it to the PanHellenic office. You don't want to continue to be bothered & made to feel uncomfortable.