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One of the actives at ______ sorority told me that I am guaranteed a bid, that she looks forward to seeing me on the lawn on Bid Day, & that she can't wait to be my Big.
That honestly makes me very uncomfortable, bc I'm trying to give each & every house a chance, & to go into recruitment w/ an open mind.
Any thoughts/opinions as to what to do in this situation? I don't want to ruin my chances at other houses... =\
#1 by: Wow
That is incredibly wrong to do and every Panhellenic woman knows that I would suggesting reporting it to Panhellenic - it won't necessarily get them in trouble, it will probably just get them a fine and serve as a reminder that it isn't fair to a PNM to do that, one because it makes them uncomfortable but two they actually can not do that.
However, I understand if you're not comfortable doing that. You should just remember to stick with keeping an open-mind about the houses, not letting that affect your decision, because you are in no way obligated to choose that house even after they said that.
Commentby: HmJul 25, 2015 10:40:14 AM
I don't think she would ruin your chances of getting into other houses. Chances are she doesn't know that many girls in every single sorority, and even then if she does tell 1 or 2 girls bad things about you, those 1 or 2 girls won't make a difference in you joining or not because they probably don't have that much say
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by: Uh...Jul 25, 2015 6:43:01 PM
Idk about YOUR house, but MY house takes Panhellenic rules very seriously. "No one likes a narc"? Way to scare the poor girl. So if she sees someone breaking the law, she's just supposed to brush it off, bc "no one likes a narc"?
Ugh, grow up.
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by: No you grow upJul 26, 2015 5:49:54 AM
#6 by: OP
She already told me how "disappointed in me" she'd be if I didn't pick her house. Which, whatever, but I really don't wanna screw up my chances elsewhere. Plus, she keeps telling me how "terrible" the other houses are, how "lame" they are, etc... & I'm of the opinion that every house has something to offer, not only to the Greek community, but to the FSU community as well. Not to mention, philanthropy! (I'm H U G E on philanthropy!)
by: lolJul 25, 2015 7:22:19 PM
you have nothing else to say, so you pick on a slang term used on a casual website.... hahahaha! cute, sweetie, very cute, but go back to the little kid's table, & let the grow ups do the talking. :)
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by: I meanJul 26, 2015 5:48:54 AM
by: I meanJul 26, 2015 5:48:55 AM
#10 by: Holy....
Well, that escalated quickly... All that catfighting is not a pleasant look, ladies!
Tell Panhellenic if she continues to bother you. If it's a one-time thing, eh, I'd probably let it slide, since people tend to get excited around this time of the year.
Otherwise, if she continues to bother you and make you feel uncomfortable, I would discreetly mention it to the PanHellenic office. You don't want to continue to be bothered & made to feel uncomfortable.
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by: YesJul 24, 2015 8:17:28 PM
Couldn't have said it better^
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