Sounds cheesy but follow your heart during pref

As an upperclassman recruiting right now I just wanted to offer a few pieces of advice during this time of tough decisions.
1) Go with the chapter that has made you feel seen as a pnm and has women that have been talking to you the way your good friends do. Do not go with the chapter who you think is cool but is looking you up and down assessing your looks rather than how you would actually fit into the friendships of their chapter.
2) get off this website!!! Reading these posts is only hurting your experience so if you are a pnm stop scrolling
3) you are so amazing and any chapter would be lucky to have you❤️❤️