Why would I not be invited back
by: pmnIs it normal to be dropped by all 12 houses I put as 1s on the first selections. i think all my convos went well and i fit the general vibe of the chapters People say its not personal but I feel like I wouldve had to do something pretty bad to be dropped from all of them.
#3by: pnmm
#4by: It's okay
Sororities don't really look for who to cut. I know that is how pnm's see it but it's not that way, they are actually focused on who to keep. All discussions, rankings, and votings are pretty business-like and positive.
For each round, every chapter is given their absolute limit of the number they can invite back, and these numbers determine their invitation lists. They rank their pnm's and then the process matches their list with that number of pnm's, accounting for the pnm's ranks when possible. When they match with their invitation limit the rest of the pnm's are simply released.
So when you are dropped it's just because you were below that cutoff, not because they targeted you to vote you out. Not making their cutoff doesn't mean they didn't like you. Sororities like many more girls each round than they can ask back, and stronger recruiting chapters, the ones that more pnm's like, are very limited in their assigned numbers. It's all numbers-based and not a personal judgement.
Hope this helps.
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by: Bets
OK I don’t understand “assigned numbers”. Why are some sororities limited in the numbers that can invite back? Are those sororities in trouble of some kind?