Uncertainty about continuing

I rushed last year and only got 7 houses back the second day and had 4 houses the day before pref and those 2 days were super discouraging because I lost most of my favorite houses, but when I was down to the last 4 (even though I really only liked 2 of them) I forced myself to give them a chance and ended up meeting really cool and chill girls at those houses and ended up preffing at one of the ones I originally didn’t like. I’m glad I never dropped though because the house I ended up in was the best choice I could have made and I’ve made my best friends and lowkey dodged a bullet with the other sororities because I found out how fake etc they were. I say to go through pref because why not and if you make it to bid day and it’s not your top choice you might as well just go that day and see what the vibe is because you can always back out at anytime so it’s worth a shot

Quitting without going thru prefs just seems stupid and immature. If you played a sport or know someone who did and things didn’t go as you/they expected, did you/they quit? Or did they tough it out trusting that it would get better? You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain by staying in.

I think you're missing out if you don't stick through to the end. But if out of 17 sororities only 3 seem acceptable to you or you're out, then I'm not sure greek life is for you.