Get into a bad sorority feel rejected by campus

Not every girl in every sorority voted on you, a few randomly did after a 5 min conversation. Haven’t you ever been friends with someone who initially you thought made a bad impression? Or maybe you didn’t even make a bad impression. They don’t know everything about you from 5 minutes. As a girl in a sorority I don’t like some of the girls in my sorority. It is a little luck a little random a little who you know a little how hot are you and do you seem outgoing. Are there going to be some people who won’t be your friend probably. But there would have been people in high school who wouldn’t have been your friend bc you were in band or the opposite bc you did cheer. College isn’t that much better than high school especially in Greek life. But it’s not a judgement call on you. You’re lucky that fsu is a big school and there are lots of non-Greek people. There are also a lot of people in Greek life who don’t care. I’ve become friends with girls in other sororities and wished they were in mine. You think a few 5 minute conversations is a good system? It’s not so don’t put so much power in it like it is

Fsu is like one of the only schools where your letters do actually matter in the short term. Choose wisely, choosing some sororities closes certain opportunities off for you compared to others.

You are a reject. You did not get into UF.

FSU is soooo much better than UF for a myriad of reasons. ONE being that no matter what sorority, or fraternity, you are in TRULY doesn't matter. If you are cute and outgoing you will will flourish at FSU. Each FSU sorority has at least some pretty girls. FACT. If you are cute, you will be able to attend any fraternity formal that you want to attend. FSU Greek is soooo CHILL. Sure there are a few that will focus on those ADPI or ZTA letters....but more often the looks and personality matter more! Love FSU!

Being cut during rush isn't a personal judgement on NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH. Getting cut does not mean they thought that you are a lesser person, or that they didn't like you, or that they will not talk to you on campus or that you couldn't be friends with individual members. You are not judged and damned forever as a loser just because a sorority couldn't fit you into their numbers, and it IS about numbers. Sororities are selecting members for best fit within their organization, not passing judgement on anyone as a person. Really.

There are so many girls going thru that many slip thru the system / it’s a hard process on both ends but like someone else said / it’s a few people making choices after a few have found at least 75 they want bc of knowledge of them - hs intros insta profile resume etc - if you don’t know girls or aren’t liked a lot by many it’s hard to be seen - be yourself but be confident and happy - best of luck

The groups that want the dumb hot girl, over the cute, smart involved girl are not compatible with you. Be glad they didn't choose you. Ask those that dropped. There is a reason the self rankers are bottom level of the grade pool.

If it bothers you then drop don’t be in a sorority and just be you. Being in Greek life isn’t a requirement if you don’t like how it makes you feel don’t be in it. It can feel like that’s all there is to school if that’s all you surround yourself with but I have friends who aren’t in it and still have fun

Focusing on the negative and wondering why will eat you up if you let it. You need to be able to shrug your shoulders and say “their loss”, move on, and be grateful for the invitations you DO have. Focus on the positive: “These x number of chapters DID ask me back,””I had a really good conversation at ABC sorority,” “ I really like DEF’s philanthropy, I’m so glad they asked me back”, etc. You can be your worst critic or your best cheerleader. Being positive, even if you have to force it at first, will help you present the kind is sister the chapters are looking for. Remember, they asked you back for a reason. They will be glad to see you there.