rushing again??
by: FmlI got into a house I didn't want, it's just not for me and I don't mesh very well with the girls and it's too cliquey for me and it's not what I wanted out of a sorority. I've found houses I'd much rather be a part of that aren't like this and have strong sisterhoods. My only problem is would houses know I rushed last year besides the one I got into and how embarrassing is it. I'd hate to not be able to experience greek life because one house "saw" something in me but ended up not working out
Commentby: FmlSep 5, 2017 11:32:18 PM
Actually I went upper mid and it is worse than a top. Hard to tell if they wanted me for me or what I could do for their sorority by looking pretty because they want to climb the greek ladder.
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by: HmSep 30, 2017 3:01:39 PM
#4 by: Sounds
It sounds like you got snookered into all of that crap about "just give it a chance", " there's always a house for you ", and " you must join a sorority in order to enjoy college ."
I hope that your $3000 per semester search for sisterhood works out for you :-).
Sidenote: way to go Panhellenic, you hooked another one.
by: HiSep 24, 2017 11:37:43 PM
Unfortunately it's not better. I've been actively trying to make connections in the house by going to lunch and dinner everyday. However, i've made zero friends/connections. The girl who preffed me has yet to say hi to me at the house. I sit alone at lunch, dinner there are more girls so i'm not alone. I just find myself only going to the house for food and even then I dread doing that because I have no friends. I prayed for it to get better and it hasn't, hopefully getting a big this week might help.
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#7 by: Hi
You're not the first to do this. I know of a couple girls who did this actually and are much happier now. Wait it off until right before initiation and if you're still not happy, then drop. Re rush next year and be honest that it's your second time around and although it was a great house it wasn't for you, you won't be shunned by it or judged. You change and grow a lot in a year and I'm sure you'll be able to find your true home.
#10 by: hi
I hope getting a big helped how you felt about your chapter. Additionally, I would recommend you reaching out to your new member educator. She will definitely help you hook you up with a group she thinks you could fit into. If it doesn't work out before initiation you can release yourself and rush again. As long as you clear your social media other chapters won't know.
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by: FmlSep 1, 2017 8:10:10 PM
Yes and I don't like it.
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