whats the most important aspect in a pnm?

yes

lol yo just be yourself

Looks

looks over everything else. first 2 days are solely based off how you look and I'm not talking about the outfits, i mean like if ya pretty or not

Body

Be yourself!

My sorority feels like PNM should have an outstanding quality. It could be looks, talent, style... but there is a grade threshold and a looks threshold you have to cross. B
After that it is if you connect with someone

LOOKS. I'm gonna give it to you straight. The first two rounds are solely about looks. So look your best those days you have to. I wish someone told me that rushing

Being completely honest with you, recruitment at FSU is extremely superficial. I love my sorority and I love our Panhellenic system as a whole, and don't get me wrong there are tons of amazing aspects regarding the Greek Life system, but rush week itself (in my opinion) is very materialistic. What people consider "top" houses are looking for girls who will solely bring publicity and popularity to their house, especially in the social media aspect (ex. facey girls who get lots of likes on their instagram pictures). Girls who are recruiting are looking at you and judging you based on how well they think you will fit in and "enhance" their sorority. The first two rounds especially are solely based on the girls' first impression of you; while yes, your personality can definitely help how well you connect, looks are really the determining factor. Go into recruitment with ABSOLUTELY no expectations and an open mind. If you go in set on a particular house, as I did, when or if you get dropped, you will be devestated and asking yourself where you went wrong, why am I not pretty enough, etc. Be yourself and work hard to hold a meaningful conversation, but keep in mind, looks really are everything during rush week.

Do they look at your social media during recruitment?