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I thought that I would end up joining a sorority and that's how I would make friends. I actually ended up dropping for personal reasons and now having a rough time. I am hoping to try Spring Rush or even wait and rush again in the Fall but I am struggling to make friends. Any advice??

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#1  by: Sorry   
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You are feeling isolated and probably a little homesick, too. It is normal. The best thing to do is join some campus orgs. Choose something you are interested in, or something related to your major. You might consider a volunteer group. No matter what, reach out to others. I know there are others feeling just like you.

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by: AdviceSep 17, 2016 5:50:09 PM

Thank you. I'm gonna try to get really involved. Also I'm a sophomore so do you have any suggestions on whether I should rush in spring or wait for fall until I'm a junior?

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#2  by: ay   
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Are you one of those 'top tier or nothing' girls? Because if you are, the chances are extremely slim for you as a junior. If you really want to be in a sorority, why not rush this spring while you are still a sophomore?

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#3  by: 3   
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there are at least 8 chapters that still have openings after fall rush and are looking to meet more girls,so i wouldn't wait if you really want to join

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by: whoSep 18, 2016 8:13:59 PM

How do I find out who??

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by: am I rightSep 22, 2016 11:37:01 PM

Someone said you can call Panhellenic and ask is that true?

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#4  by: wait   
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Wait what? Do they make it known if they are still accepting members or is it you have to be friends with sisters.

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by: WellSep 19, 2016 9:05:09 PM

Most chapters don't broadcast it. But after bid day Panhellenic looks at numbers and gives allotments. Lots of times it doesn't have anything to do with quota, but how many actives they had prior to the new pledge class.

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by: waitSep 20, 2016 2:45:14 PM

so how do we find out about events/chapters who are still looking for PNMs

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by: friendsSep 22, 2016 8:16:03 PM

ask around, no one is supposed to say but Im sure if you push around enough your PH friends might just ask you to lunch

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#5  by: But   
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But what if we are not really close to anyone in PH. I feel like it would be weird to approach a girl in on eof my classes and just ask her about spring rush

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by: wellSep 23, 2016 12:32:55 AM

just talk to her about your class and act casual, make a friend, don't just go after her for her letters. if you two click, maybe mention you're going to do spring rush to her closer to the time without flat out asking her for a bid (because thats hella desperate)

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