delta zeta

Don't be sad girl
there's 2000+ pnms and as much as any chapter wants to take everyone they can't and it's not up the people who rush u it kinda is but not fully ... It's a tough process for everyone

Try in the spring if u didn't pref

It also could have been a computer glitch! Don't worry they do spring rush too! Keep your head up!

I mean you have to be realistic.

Every girl can't join every house. Girls HAVE to be cut somehow, how else do you propose selection it's done? This isn't a fun process for anyone involved. It doesn't make them fake, doesn't mean they disliked you, doesn't even mean that girl didn't actually want to see you today. It means collectively the chapter thought someone else was a better fit for their house.

It's 2000+ girls to sort through in a week, they do the best they can and a lot of times they get their heart broken too by the chapter not agreeing with their opinion on a pnm or a pnm they loved not choosing their house.

They've all been in the same position as you. Most thought they knew what they wanted about a certain house and were usually wrong. The houses that asked you back today felt you could be part of their sisterhood. Rush is discouraging but tomorrow can be amazing if you give it a chance.

This scenario happens too often. I hope you went to your pref parties and find a home.

It's usually not the girl u talked to that dropped u, it's just the process as a whole

youll find out when you're on the other side

I rushed a girl at my chapter yesterday and she got dropped and I was so heart broken. every person who talks to you scores you and at the end of the week they add them all up and the highest numbers get in. it sucks because a lot of girls slip through the cracks. DZ usually does spring rush which is so layed back and easy!

This is what happened to me with axo... I felt so at home and my heart was ripped out when they didn't invite me back