why all the negativity

What's the point of bashing everyone else? PNMs never look at this and if they do they are joking a sorority for the wrong reasons. You find the chapter you click with by having real conversations with people and seeing if you have things in common. If you have a superficial or fake conversation then you should know whether or not you want to be with a chapter like that. Reading self rankings and bashing of sororities is stupid, go into recruitment with your own mindset, not other chapters' jealousy.