How do i tell my roommate to stop making assumptions?
by: AdviceMe and my roomie are rushing but i'm out of state and she's in state. Every time we talk about rushing she says she will be in a chapter that is top tier because she's attractive and from in state, she also went to high school with a few girls in various chapters. She is also going as far as telling me which houses are a waste of our time and we (she) should drop as soon as we can. Telling this to me, fine cool no big deal I don't really care but she's starting to tell some friends were making who are also rushing which might get around. I don't want her to get blacklisted or I don't want to see her not get in those houses and be upset. Any advice?
#1 by: YOU
In this scenario you should worry about you, not her. She could affect YOUR rush by running her mouth. If people believe that you are going along with what she is saying then that will get around and it will be worse for you being oos.
There is absolutely nothing you can do for her. Let her do her own rush. Maybe she is connected and can pick and choose, maybe not, but it's totally on her not you.
You keep yourself to yourself as far as any rush talk and do not tell her or anyone what you think, or give anyone a reason to talk about you. Be sweet, be positive, be open minded, and be silent.
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