Confused by adpi

I had them in the bottom three as well. They kept coming back on my schedule. I did eventually get a girl I connected with. It’s all in who they paired you with

I was a gamma chi this year and how PNMs feel about ADPi completely depends on what girl they pair you with. I’m not an ADPi but one of my friends is, and they recruit very strongly for the most part. Some girls don’t have good convos there because unlike many sororities, they let all of their girls recruit, even the “socially awkward” girls. Surprisingly the “top” houses have the most socially awkward girls because if they’re a legacy or have an alum pulling for them they have to get a bid. The difference is that those chapters don’t let their awkward girls recruit. Recruitment is such a manufactured environment and it’s hard to gauge what a house is actually like.

not an adpi but they are very kind and sweet girls. this is such a mean was to phrase this girl and they deserve better

It really is all about who you’re paired with. During rush I was paired with a no match at PM and I cut them but after rush I was like I would have liked PM. Seriously there’s over 200 girls recruiting at these houses you will not always get the cream of the crop. Sometimes you’ll be stuck talking to those socially awkward or not your vibe type girls. Think about it they have to talk to someone. And they have to talk to someone, the best girls in each sorority are paired with girls they are heavily interested in and other girls get who is left which is not going to be your best recruiters. Hope this makes sense.

i was a gamma chi this year as well and none of my pnms had anything negative to say about adpi. obviously some preferred other houses but none of my pnms said they had bad convos there and they weren’t heavily cut by my group. i’d say that they competed mostly with alpha chi, kd, and phi mu this year. what pnms ended up choosing was pretty equal between these. this just shows that maybe your group of friends don’t vibe with a particular house, but that isn’t a good representation of a house as a whole. and no i’m not an adpi.

@Wendy and friends I’m not trying to be rude but you were most likely not high on the list of we need these girls in our sorority, if you had that bad of an experience. Because if you were being recruited, like they want you to choose them, you’d know. Otherwise it’s a stick them with whoever to talk to them and if they cut us they cut us, who cares type thing. There are just too many pnms to focus on, which is honestly a shame. You’ll see what I’m talking about when you’re recruiting.

You could say this about any house. Phi mu was in the bottom 3 for me and my friends and everyone else I knew, we thought the girls were fake and mean.

Chi O is not in a league of their own. They lost many of their top pnms to zeta, pi phi, and kappa. This happens every year even though they'd never admit it.

Adpi is a great house! They are the most down to earth and genuine girls. I've never met one I didn't like.

No I totally agree with this! As someone who has been here for a minute, every adpi I knew has dropped and if they haven’t they complain about it 24/7. they do have some super sweet and gorgeous girls but recent years have made them fall slightly for sure.