Don’t think too much about where you end up

As someone who’s made it out the other end onto post grad life, don’t let where you end up on bid day define who you are. Honestly most of my friends I made weren’t even from my sorority, they were in my academic program. There will be people you like and dislike in every sorority at at the end of the day every sorority has functions, philanthropy events, sisterhood events etc.
You’ll find your people where you’re supposed to and it’s okay if it’s not mainly your sorority where you do. Don’t put too much pressure on it. Just enjoy college to your fullest.
Sincerely,
a depressed new grad who didn’t realize how good she had it.